Therapy After Divorce, Breakup
and Relationship Changes in Denver
For people who feel emotionally shaken, spiritually disoriented, or stuck after a relationship ends.
We offer holistic psychotherapy, internal family systems, body-based energy work, and spiritual insight
to help you grieve, reconnect with yourself, and move forward with more clarity.
In Person In Denver
1633 Fillmore st #102, Denver CO
Holistic Psychotherapy
Mind, Body, Emotion and Spirit
Body-Based Energy Work
For people who want more
The Relationship is Over...
But what do you do with these feeling?
The grief? The Sadness? The memories of what was and what could have been?
What if you can grow from this? What if you can learn even more about yourself while letting them go?
This is for people who not only want to heal after a breakup or divorce but want to thrive and become a whole person.
You May Be Here Because…
- You are going through a breakup or divorce.
- You ended the relationship, but still feel grief or guilt.
- The relationship ended, but part of you still feels attached.
- You keep replaying conversations, mistakes, or memories.
- You feel anxious, depressed, numb, or emotionally unstable.
- You feel like you lost yourself in the relationship.
- You are questioning your worth, identity, or future.
- You are afraid of repeating the same pattern again.
- You feel spiritually shaken or unsure who you are now.
- You want something deeper than just “moving on.”
Why Do Relationship Endings
Feel So Disorienting?
Because It can activate
old attachment wounds, childhood patterns,
abandonment fears, rejection, shame, grief, and unresolved trauma.
Because It can activate
old attachment wounds, childhood patterns,
abandonment fears, rejection, shame, grief, and unresolved trauma.
A part of you may know the relationship is over. Another part may still be holding on. Another part may feel angry. Another part may feel relieved. Another part may feel terrified of being alone.
There can be many parts of you feeling many things, and none of them are wrong.
This is why relationship endings can feel so confusing. It’s not one clean feeling — it’s many parts of you responding at once, each reacting to a different piece of what just happened. Some parts are trying to protect you. Some are still grieving. Some just want the confusion to stop.
None of them need to be resolved right away. They just need somewhere to be heard.
A Break-up Can Be a Time
to Return to Yourself
When a relationship ends, you are not only grieving the person. You may also be grieving the version of yourself that existed inside that relationship, the future you imagined, and the ways you got to be or ways you didn’t get to be.
This is a time to ask yourself the deeper questions.
- Who am I now?
- What do I actually want?
- What can I learn about myself?
- Did I lose, silence, or abandon myself in my relationship?
- What do I want to choose differently for my life?
It is a opportunity to look at your attachment patterns, your needs, your fears, your boundaries, your desires, and the parts of you that may have adapted in order to be loved. The ending of a relationship can become a doorway into deeper self-trust, clearer desire, and a more grounded relationship with yourself.
"Healing After a Relationship Ends
is About Remembering You Are a Whole Person"
Testimonials
“Nick is an awesome therapist. He’s a fantastic listener and is always full of wisdom.” -Gio
“I personally enjoy that he speaks about challenging topics with “light” energy.” -Solomon
“Nick was the best therapist I have ever been to.” – Sarah
“Nick is the best of the best!” -Ellen
Tai Yi Treatments
That Work with Breakups
Life Energy Flow Tai Yi a body based energetic modality that works with the deeper levels of your system to assist with issues.
Each of these are the names of treatments that assist with different issues.
To look at the full treatment list click here.
Focuses on:
- Letting go of the relationship
- Learning more about how you get in your way with love
- Retrieving the part of you that was lost in the relationship
People may say:
- “I feel ready to finally let go”
- “I want to know how I pushed away love in my relationship”
- “Its been long enough, I’m ready to let go”
- “I want reclaim what I lost of myself in that relationship.
How this helps:
Death of Relationship Energy Treatment supports the release of “the relationship” and the part of you that still exists in “the relationship.” Imagine a part of you and the other person exist as their own entity, that is “the relationship”, this treatment helps to release that part that still exists there. When that part of you comes back, the part of you that ‘you lost’ in the relationship begins to come back as well.
It also assists in understanding how you push away love in relationships or how you enter relationships that don’t support your ability to love.
Go here for a full description of this treatment ->
Focuses On:
- Self Worth
- Self Judgement,
based on internalized- Fear
- Shame
- Guilt
- How you feel when you remember things
People may say:
- “I want to stop judging myself”
- “I feel like my childhood (and how I was raised) messed up my relationship”
- “I want to be receptive to things that support me”
- “I just want to feel more worthy”
How This Helps:
Growing up you learned self judgement based on your experiences of how you were raised with guilt, shame and/or fear. These emotional experiences becomes internalized and part of your emotional landscape and how you treat yourself and how you feel about yourself (specifically how you feel about your memories).
This helps you receive more in life by assisting in letting go of the judgement you learned growing up.
Go here for a full description of this treatment.
Focuses On:
- Releasing relationships that did not end well (romantic and non-romantic)
- Unburdens you from past relationship
- Opens you to healthier relationship experiences
People may say:
- “I hate how that ended”
- “I still think about how it ended”
- “I’ve burned some bridges” or “I’ve been burned”
How this helps:
Love Obstruction assists in release old relationships that didn’t end well, opening your experiences of new relationship to not have the baggage going into them.
May relate to:
- Old beliefs and lies you believe about connecting with others
- Not allowing others to get close to for fear of abandonment or hurt
- Not feeling lovable or worthy of love
People may say:
- “I’m always pushing away love, what’s wrong with me?”
- “I’m just not good enough”
- “Being loved means being hurt”
How it may fit anxiety work:
Bonding intelligences assists in releasing lies you took on growing up. It brings those lies to your awareness and assists in purging them from your brain. Allowing you to connect without old beliefs like “I’m not worthy”, “Love is pain” or “I’m not good enough” as a few examples.
Helps with:
- Guilt in relationships
- Confusing what love is with guilt
- Being raised in a guilt focus household
People may say:
- “I feel guilty all the time”
- “I’m easily influenced when I feel guilt”
- “My mom/dad used to guilt me”
- “Sometimes I don’t know if I feel love or obligation”
How it may help:
The Guilt of Love works with individuals that collapsed what they feel love is with guilt. This is common when growing up in religious households or with guilty mother figures. This helps in relationship when you are easily influenced when your partner uses guilt on you.
Helps wtih:
- Being more open in relationships
- Being available to deeply bond with someone
- Vulnerability
People may say:
- “I wish I could open more”
- “I’m afraid to be vulnerable”
- “I feel like I don’t know how to connect”
How it may help:
Relationship of Purity assists with deepening your ability to give and receive emotional support and assists you in letting your guard down when you want to truly connect with another person. As a bonus it also helps you to emotionally support yourself.
Do a call to learn more about each treatment.
Learn more about the different Yi Tai Treatments here.